u sound like that crazy white lady from orange is the new black lol.
It’s all about what you feel is best for yourself. Personally, I think If the person that broke up with you has hurt you multiple times prior to breaking up then I’d choose the new one in your life because odds are if you get back with the first one… You’ll get hurt again. If you feel like the new one in your life has more to offer you than your first… That’s a sign too. If your ex only wants you when you show interest in the someone else… Don’t go back to them. And as a closing thought… If you’re sitting here confused on whether to choose your old boyfriend/girlfriend vs. the new boy/girl in your life… Choose the second. Because you wouldn’t have gone to the second if the first was doing their job right.